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How to Identify an INFJ personality

Posted: March 17, 2016 in HOME

The Myers Briggs personality INFJ. Introverted + intuitive + feeler + judging. Hanging out with the friend most likely to be Gandhi, Mother Teresa, or Martin Luther King Jr… or Seinfeld

Source: How to Identify an INFJ personality


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ISFJ – Zurich, Switzerland

If there’s anything an ISFJ likes it’s a clean, well-ordered environment where everyone gets along nicely and everything works the way it should. In the pristine city of Zurich, ISFJs will find themselves perfectly at home. Reserved but polite, the citizens of Switzerland don’t like to raise much of a fuss unless they have to. They go about their days, get business done as they should and then retire to their well-maintained homes with their close-knit families. Ever-neutral Switzerland is the ideal spot for the peace-seeking ISFJ. No fuss, no muss, no hefty disagreements.

ENTP – Hong Kong

Hong Kong offers a diverse fusion of the Eastern and Western worlds, with enough food, entertainment, languages, religions, diversity and opportunity to keep the ENTP intellectually stimulated until the end of time. This type loves exploring new avenues of thought and new methods of experiencing life…

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Out of 16 different personality types INFJs make the rarest combination of people to exist, which means they’re often misunderstood and dating them can be a challenging adventure. They have the greatest capacity for love and empathy within a relationship but their tendency to be extremely gullible and idealistic can create problems. Here are some things to be mindful of when dating this personality type.

1. If you’re looking for a temporary romance with them they likely won’t even bother. INFJs prefer long, lasting relationships and avoid short-term relationships if they can. Casual dating and FWB situations just don’t give them the type of deep connection they need to feel fulfilled.

2. They sometimes forget to take care of themselves. INFJs have a habit of taking care of everyone else around them before they take care of themselves. While this sounds sweet and selfless the problem comes when they realize…

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How to Understand Your INFJ: Part 2

Posted: September 25, 2014 in HOME



1. INFJs hate explaining details. If you ask your INFJ how to get from point A to point B, don’t expect an exact, to-the-point answer. Since INFJs rely more heavily on Introverted Intuition and Introverted Thinking than their Extroverted counterparts, explaining processes, procedures and other detail-oriented tasks can sometimes be difficult. Imagine the INFJ’s brain as scattered pieces of a jigsaw puzzle. We already know what the puzzle is supposed to look like when it’s complete, so we don’t bother putting the pieces together. However, in order to explain how we know what the picture looks like we have to take the time to actually arrange the pieces. We’re just not natural detail people. This is one reason we like things like lists and schedules, because they help us structure our scattered minds.

2. It’s pretty hard to type an INFJ. I’m an INFJ, I have several good INFJ friends…

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How to Understand Your INFJ: Part 1

Posted: September 25, 2014 in HOME



1. Accept that you will never really understand your INFJ. If it were possible for anyone to 100% understand any INFJ, an INFJ would have wrote a book on it by now. But the truth is, even we INFJs can’t completely understand ourselves, so we don’t expect you to. But we can tell when you’re trying, and that means a lot.

2. Listen to what your INFJ is not saying. You know the quote that goes something like “the quietest people have the loudest minds”? That is very true of INFJs. The quieter we are, the more we probably have on our minds. We want friends and partners who understand that and will want to talk to us about it, and more importantly, listen.

3. Know that INFJs really aren’t that serious. Yes, we have a lot on our minds. Yes, we can be sensitive. Yes, we like to partake…

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13 Signs You’re A Classic INFJ

Posted: September 19, 2014 in HOME

13 Tanda Bahwa Anda seorang INFJ Klasik.

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INFJ – Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Judging. INFJs are known to be great listeners, big dreamers, and deep, complex people. As the rarest personality type INFJ’s only make up less than 3% of the population. If you’ve taken the Myers-Briggs Personality Indicator you probably know what you’re categorized as but these are some signs of a classic INFJ.

1. You’re always in search of a deeper meaning. At work, in relationships, with friends, and interactions with strangers you’re continually looking at life and situations in an obscure way to discover what’s beyond the surface.

2. Although people have an easy time connecting with you sometimes you can be a difficult person to really know. You value your privacy and often feel like you can only be your “true self” around those closest to you.

3. You’re a highly empathetic and sensitive person with an innate ability…

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Plight of the INFJ

Posted: December 19, 2013 in HOME

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The topic of personality types has been on my mind a lot lately. Ever since seeing that Harry Potter typology, I’ve revisited the subject of Myers-Briggs and personality typing with the same enthusiasm with which I researched it in high school. Many of my friends have talked or blogged about it recently. Last week I started running Google searches for INFJ-specific topics (how they function as lawyers, what kind of daters they tend to be, etc.) and was quite intrigued by the results. If any of the below gets confusing, see my previous post for a basic introduction to Myers-Briggs methodology. Hefty critiques of the system exist, but I’ve actually found it to have great predictive and interpretive value, so onward!

Yours truly is an INFJ – Introverted, iNtuitive, Feeling, and Judging. The skinny is that time alone energizes me, my thinking is big-picture and gut-feeling dominated, my interpersonal interactions…

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Are You An INFJ?

Posted: November 25, 2013 in HOME

Kisahku : INFJ.

Posted: November 17, 2013 in HOME, Kisah Para Alien (INFJ)

by : Moody

Saya tipe orang yang pendiam, suka menyendiri, dan pemalu. Saya orangnya kreatif, tapi terkadang susah untuk menunjukkannya. Pengalaman saya semasa kecil sering di bully dan hal ini saya pendam sendiri. Saya merasa berbeda dengan anak anak lain semenjak kecil, saya suka ngomong dengan diri sendiri dan juga suka memperhatikan orang orang dan menebak perasaan ataupun karakter orang tersebut. Saya ingat, kalau sakit demam, saya selalu bermimpi hal yang sama dan menakutkan.

Hal hal yang saya tebak selalu benar, tetapi jika saya sampaikan kepada orang tersebut, katanya salah, entah ada penyangkalan dari mereka atau apapun itu, yang pasti hati dan pikiran saya tidak mau berhenti berfikir sampai terkadang susah tidur. Dari kecil saya suka sekali pelajaran mengarang karena memang hobi saya berimajinasi. Imajinasi itu antara lain menemukan sebuah ruangan di bawah tanah yang didalamnya seperti sebuah rumah lengkap dengan perabotannya, dan suka membayangkan rumah impian dengan desain sendiri. Semakin kesini bayangan rumah itu semakin nyata detail bentuk dan gambarannya (mudah mudahan terwujud ) Beranjak dewasa saya tetap dengan karakter sama dan sering mengalami “kegalauan”. Kadang apa yang saya bicarakan selalu sulit dimengerti oleh orang orang disekitar saya. Karena itu, saya jadi malas berbicara banyak dengan orang orang kecuali orang itu membuat saya nyaman bercerita dan cocok dengan karakter saya.

Pernah ada momen aneh, ketika itu menjelang wisuda, setiap saya berdoa atau membaca ayat suci, saya sering menangis tanpa tau sebabnya, bahkan sampai dada terasa sesak. Lalu setiap saya tidur dengan posisi lampu mati, saya selalu mimpi seram dan mimpi itu sama. Pernah juga saya melihat badan sendiri, seperti keluar dari tubuh sendiri, antara sadar dan tidak. Kejadian yang semakin aneh itu, membuat orang tua saya memaksa saya untuk berobat ke “orang pintar”. Saya sangat kebingungan waktu itu, karena saya sendiri tidak merasa sakit atau stres, karena saran atau pengobatan itu selalu kontra dengan diri pribadi.

Kejadian aneh lainnya saya pernah melihat sebuah cahaya putih di rumah, disaksikan dengan saudara saya yang juga melihat cahaya putih itu di punggung saya. Sampai sekarang saya tidak mengerti apa itu, dan saya merasa asing, merasa sendirian kalau sedang berada ditengah banyak orang. Saya merasa tidak memiliki indra keenam, saya juga tidak stres, tapi tidak ada yang mempercayai saya.

Saya keras kepala dan lumayan idealis tapi kenyataanya susah untuk menentang dan butuh kekuatan yang sangat besar untuk mengeluarkannya, seperti perasaan tidak tega atau tidak enak hati. Terkadang saya suka mengalah bahkan seringnya begitu, ada perasaan ga enak, takut menyakiti bahkan ketika saya berada di posisi yang bernarpun saya tidak mengatakan yang sebenarnya, jadi biar tergangtung asumsi mereka saja, toh nanti akan terlihat sendiri siapa yang benar dan yang salah, meskipun hati saya ingin sekali berteriak apa yang sebenarnya. Orang disekitar saya harus tau zona nyaman saya adalah kamar saya sendiri. Disana saya sering bermimpi seru, sampai saya terbangun dan lgsg saya jurnal di kertas atau media lain, dan impian saya, mimpi mimpi itu kelak bisa dijadikan film.

Disisi lain, saya juga suka merasa bisa menggambarkan ekspresi seseorang dari tulisan atau dari gesture nya. Dan setelah mengetahui kalau saya ini INFJ, sekarang saya bisa lebih bisa menerima kalau saya memang berbeda, tetapi masih saja masih belajar mengontrol emosi, jika teman teman dekat saya bilang kalau saya ini aneh. Yah memang kebanyakan begitu, mereka sulit menebak pribadi saya. Hal ini memang menjadi kendala saya dalam bersosialisasi karena takut disalah pahami orang. Meskipun saya ingin banyak teman, pada kenyataanya saya sering fokus pada satu orang saja di setiap perannya, jadi memang benar satu orang saja sudah cukup bagi saya seorang INFJ. Setelah tau soal INFJ, apapun itu, tidak usah terlalu dipusingkan, walaupun berat menjalani hidup sebagai INFJ, tetapi sekarang saya lebih tenang dalam menjalaninya.